Life is...
Oct. 11th, 2006 04:20 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
eviltammybad... and good.
Good is that I'm taking off to Memphis tomorrow - the PWFC is having some kind of thing, but I'm not going to that - Ith and Nin will be there and I'm going to see them.
And I need to get away because:
My brother is an asshole. He hates the cousin who's currently living in my uncle's mobile home (uncle is now in nursing home - trailer is on our land - actually, it's my land, or will be when probate is finished). He's trying to evict them - they all have a court date on the 20th. Cousin's wife and cousin have been cleaning my house. After Mom died, I... pretty much didn't do anything and the house got really bad - and whenever I tried to start, it irritated my allergies and asthma, so I'd stop and it would get worse... Place looks SO much better now. Brother throws a foulmouthed, over-the-top fit that these "evil, lying, cheating scum" (not his words, but close enough) have the nerve to come down here in HIS house, on HIS property.
Maybe Chuck did cheat him on the work Richard hired him to do - I don't know because I wasn't involved. Chuck and his wife have been nice to me - because I'm not an asshole. And yes, I'm paying them to clean the place - it was a sty. No, I shouldn't have let it get that way, but I did and I couldn't fix it. But this doesn't matter.
One comment my brother made was "if they come back, you can leave with them". So now I have an appointment with a lawyer next week to see if my brother can throw me out of the house before probate is over. And I doubt I'll be seeing much of my niece for a while.
The blowup was yesterday. I've decided to put the rest of the house cleaning off - the really bad stuff is mostly done anyway - until after I meet with the lawyer and they have their court date. I also have to go for a check up with the radiation oncologist the day before their court date (4 years! One more check up with the surgeon next year and I might can stop the visits!) - I'm contemplating being gone that day too, since I'll already be up in Winston-Salem.
Just to explain - Richard got the land he's living on and this house and it's land. I got the small tract where Uncle Jay's trailer is and my late great-aunt's property (no house - it burned down). But Richard was wanting to trade properties, this house and land for great-aunt's land (and maybe a couple of smaller tracts)(family land). But if I can't allow people into *his* house, maybe he shouldn't be trying to evict people from *my* property?
And maybe I just really don't want to deal with any of it? All I want it to get on disability or get denied again or get some kind of job, play with my kitties and doggie, play on the computer, and read. I don't want be cussed at, yelled at, threatened, or upset and scared. Is that really too much to ask?
Lately I'd been getting things out of my storage unit, so I could have my stuff again. Should I start repacking and putting stuff back? I gave another cousin an extra key to the house and asked her to come over and feed the pets while I'm gone. Usually I'd ask Richard to look after the dog, but now I'm not sure I'd trust him to do it. He's not likely to give this cousin any trouble, I hope - she's more of an age of our parents, but she's actually Dad's niece - but she is, also, Chuck's mother. Hopefully she won't come in contact with him. And I'm contemplating taking the hidden outside key from its spot, so that he can't get in, but I'd like to think he'd try to get my cats out if something happened to the house.
And this doesn't even address the guns and drug issues.
Oh, to be an only child. Or really - to have my parents back. ::sigh::
I should have known having something good happen would mean my life would be going to hell shortly thereafter.
Good is that I'm taking off to Memphis tomorrow - the PWFC is having some kind of thing, but I'm not going to that - Ith and Nin will be there and I'm going to see them.
And I need to get away because:
My brother is an asshole. He hates the cousin who's currently living in my uncle's mobile home (uncle is now in nursing home - trailer is on our land - actually, it's my land, or will be when probate is finished). He's trying to evict them - they all have a court date on the 20th. Cousin's wife and cousin have been cleaning my house. After Mom died, I... pretty much didn't do anything and the house got really bad - and whenever I tried to start, it irritated my allergies and asthma, so I'd stop and it would get worse... Place looks SO much better now. Brother throws a foulmouthed, over-the-top fit that these "evil, lying, cheating scum" (not his words, but close enough) have the nerve to come down here in HIS house, on HIS property.
Maybe Chuck did cheat him on the work Richard hired him to do - I don't know because I wasn't involved. Chuck and his wife have been nice to me - because I'm not an asshole. And yes, I'm paying them to clean the place - it was a sty. No, I shouldn't have let it get that way, but I did and I couldn't fix it. But this doesn't matter.
One comment my brother made was "if they come back, you can leave with them". So now I have an appointment with a lawyer next week to see if my brother can throw me out of the house before probate is over. And I doubt I'll be seeing much of my niece for a while.
The blowup was yesterday. I've decided to put the rest of the house cleaning off - the really bad stuff is mostly done anyway - until after I meet with the lawyer and they have their court date. I also have to go for a check up with the radiation oncologist the day before their court date (4 years! One more check up with the surgeon next year and I might can stop the visits!) - I'm contemplating being gone that day too, since I'll already be up in Winston-Salem.
Just to explain - Richard got the land he's living on and this house and it's land. I got the small tract where Uncle Jay's trailer is and my late great-aunt's property (no house - it burned down). But Richard was wanting to trade properties, this house and land for great-aunt's land (and maybe a couple of smaller tracts)(family land). But if I can't allow people into *his* house, maybe he shouldn't be trying to evict people from *my* property?
And maybe I just really don't want to deal with any of it? All I want it to get on disability or get denied again or get some kind of job, play with my kitties and doggie, play on the computer, and read. I don't want be cussed at, yelled at, threatened, or upset and scared. Is that really too much to ask?
Lately I'd been getting things out of my storage unit, so I could have my stuff again. Should I start repacking and putting stuff back? I gave another cousin an extra key to the house and asked her to come over and feed the pets while I'm gone. Usually I'd ask Richard to look after the dog, but now I'm not sure I'd trust him to do it. He's not likely to give this cousin any trouble, I hope - she's more of an age of our parents, but she's actually Dad's niece - but she is, also, Chuck's mother. Hopefully she won't come in contact with him. And I'm contemplating taking the hidden outside key from its spot, so that he can't get in, but I'd like to think he'd try to get my cats out if something happened to the house.
And this doesn't even address the guns and drug issues.
Oh, to be an only child. Or really - to have my parents back. ::sigh::
I should have known having something good happen would mean my life would be going to hell shortly thereafter.
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Date: 2006-10-14 09:15 pm (UTC)Brother has bullying tendencies and has always been obnoxious.